My biggest reward is to see men marry well. Nothing like it. You do that right you’ve got life by the tail. There’s two really big decisions in life, whether to except or reject Jesus Christ, and who are you going to marry. That one decision charts the destiny of your whole family line. So men you want to make sure you get that one right. The very best way to make sure you don’t screw that choice up is to get yourself sexually pure. If you’ve got that going you have what very very few single men have, purity. What a fantastic gift, no….the very best gift to give to your wife.
The coolest part of all is that you get in a wife what you are. Guys want this awesome woman to fulfill them and they’re all messed up themselves…… and t’s not going to happen. What will happen is when you get ready for marriage, when you’re prepared God is going to blow your mind. I regularly look at my wife after 20 years of marriage and go, wow! She’s so hot, she’s so godly, kind, smart, wise, such a good mom. She’s everything I needed, most of what I wanted… it’s perfect, thank you Lord. Now, I’m not saying it’s always perfect, but it’s….. perfect if you know what I mean. That’s what you are preparing for. When you’re ready, she’ll be there.
Here’s a big fat bunny trail, but I’m gonna take it. …Travel is sexy. If your single you have this great chance to travel like you never will have again. You’ll travel, but it will be different, so do it now, don’t put it off. I’ve taken a lot of trips and they all have made me who I am. There was one big trip that really changed me, so much so that I wrote about in a book to my kids, check it out.
In life you take everything you have ever done, every where you have ever been, every friend you have ever had into your marriage. So get out there and make some memories, you can sleep when you’re old. Do things just for the story if you need to but get out there and rock and roll, the clock is ticking. And trust me, all that stuff is super hot to your future wife. If you haven’t grown your hair out, do that too and take some pictures to show your kids, they’ll be here before you know it and you’ll be glad you did. If you don’t meet your wife on that giant trip your planning that has been burning inside you for while…. then she’ll be waiting for you when you get back. Trust me, travel is sexy, and you’re welcome.
Now back to the most rewarding thing about Monday night for me is seeing young men, and I mean “men” get prepared, fall in love and get married. It’s priceless, it’s beautiful, it’s fun. It’s a chick flick movie (that guys would like) with a happy ending. There is a confidence about these couples that goes deep. A intimacy between them that you can see. I love officiating their weddings, I cry every time because I can see their future, and it’s good and it’s God. Purity pays off, today, tomorrow, and for generations to come. The preparation you are doing right now will link you for eternity to a fantastic woman. I’m so glad for you, God is with you and giving you the wisdom to get it right.