My goal for the men that come to this group is that they could be in a room full of naked Brazilian models and it not bother them at all. If you are pure there should be no where you can’t go and nothing you can’t do. We live in a sexually charged culture and unless you want to crawl in a hole and be some pasty white, sheltered, linguine spine, don’t do it, powerless christian male you need to deal with the heat. If someone, or something is doing something for you, you need not run but rather ask yourself what’s broken and get some Divine heart surgery. Ask yourself “what do I need” “how am I going to get that in a healthy way?” And do it in the context of relationships, with men who know you, love you, and trust your heart. This gentlemen is road to freedom. It takes time, and a ruthless pursuit of purity.