If you want to personally experience the definition of pain, just stop doing something stupid with your penis. Other ways to have that pain experience is to stop over eating/drinking, Over working. churching, video gaming,…..or just stop the busy that hides it from you.
Sexual purity is the definition of manhood. Men can fast for 40 days, climb the Eiger, swim the English Channel, play professional sports, make millions, employ thousands and not be able to control their penis.