Play the what if game. What if I did ____? How would that affect my marriage, my family, my work? Honestly look at the scenario in your mind and let it play out. Take a hard look at the results. Many times there is so much pain it over rides the fear of the consequences. What we do in here on Monday and through the week is primarily relational. We carry one another through tough stuff with friendship, prayer, and raw honesty. We live in the light, work on our stuff, and find a way to let Jesus into the place that hurts.